If a man feels awkward saying or doing almost anything, then he is not in the right place in his head.  Tyler Durden talks about “Unstifling” yourself in the blueprint, and let me tell you, he could not be more right.  You cannot ever let the universe weigh you down, dude.  You can’t allow other people to hold you to their expectations.  You have to be a force, man.  A fucking unpredictable, positive train of energy barreling towards the next station.  You need to be out there wreaking havoc, and you need friends who are looking for the same.

You just can’t overestimate the importance of having good friends.  When I lose a really good friend (so far due only to geographical differences, luckily) it’s like a piece of myself is left behind as well.  All those stories and adventures we shared together, the dynamic of our friendship that we’d established, all of it seems no longer accessible.  And it hurts.  And it’s so hard to find replacements.  And new friends take time to develop anyway.

But what I’m getting at is that when you have that environment where your closest, craziest friends are all there fucking stirring it up, that is what it means to be on top of the world.  No amount of money, no title, no flashy car, NOTHING can replace that feeling of reckless abandon shared with your closest of pals.  It’s the greatest thing I know.  And yes, you’ll bang chicks easily when that happens.  Just because the chicks will do anything to remain in the light that your glory shines down upon them.  It is the simplest and most elegant seduction – showing them unbridled waves of emotion, and being the coolest guys they’ve ever met, by FAR.

That is why we dominated every woman we brought into our college house.  That is why we had some of the craziest reputations at Rutgers.  Because we worked so hard to bring the party every single night.  When you create an atmosphere that’s more like girls gone wild than a regular everyday party, girls pick up on it and follow along.  But the key is having friends who all work together to build that environment.  We did not invite boring debbie downers to our apartment.  It was game time all the time, and when it’s game time, you’re either on or off.